I'm sad. I thought my boyfriend was the one for me..but something felt weird so I broke up with him. He was so hurt and upset with me. I hate seeing him cry.. He is so sweet and I feel bad.. I still love him with all my heart. What do I do?
It’s funny - Usually those who get broken up with get all of the “heart broken” attention, but the ones who DO the breaking up also - (at least most of the time) - have a broke heart!
It’s not easy to break up with someone. In fact, it can even be harder because you have to deal with the guilt of hurting someone and the “what if I made a mistake?” thoughts that drift in and out of your mind.
But all that eventually fades, and chances are you DID make the right choice.
I know it hurts like hell to break someone’s heart - but you have to stay strong and firmly follow through with your decisions.
Give him respect, let him heal.
Let him cry, don’t talk to him.
He needs space in order to move on from you.
He will find another person that will love him more than the world soon enough.
Heart break is a part of life … you’re not a bad guy! But DO give him space. Talking to him in ANY WAY will ONLY HURT HIM MORE and make it HARDER for him to move on and feel normal again.