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So me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months now and I got stupid drunk the other night and had sex with this guy I've been friends with for years. He doesn't know and I highly doubt he'll find out but this guilt is eating me up. I don't know what to do and if I do tell him. Help me how do I say this:( Going nuts over here.
I honestly have no idea.
I don’t even know if you should tell him.
I have no idea the kind of relationship you have.
I feel like because you had sex with someone else it may reflect your relationship with your boyfriend… like how you feel about it all deep down… but I don’t know.
Usually people cheat/stray when shit is going rough and when they feel too vulnerable or insecure.
I really don’t know. :(
And it’s also complicated because you see it as an immediate mistake and something you wouldn’t do sober.
I mean if you tell your boyfriend he may never forgive you and it could easily ruin everything. If you don’t tell him, well, it may save him hurting and could make your relationship last… I mean, do you see yourself marrying this guy? How serious are you two when it’s all said and done?
My boyfriend I have been together for 2 years. He recently broke up with me because he says he wants to be alone. Do you think he'll come back?
I don’t know.
I feel like guys never really know what they want.
In my own experience, guys have come “back” to me, but it always falls apart. Plus, even if they do come back, MY trust is broken. I don’t believe anything they say because I’m always expecting them to leave again. It’s a highly destructive pattern.
I’m sorry… But honestly, you deserve someone who WANTS TO BE WITH YOU NO MATTER WHAT.
Respect yourself! <3
hi. So today I went to my boyfriends dragon boating races and like his ex girlfriend was there and she kept being a annoying bitch whispering to her friends as she continuously passed me and it just made me feel like absolute incredible shit. Here was this girl who took 9 and a half months off of my boyfriends life and she just made me feel so incredibly down I can't even explain it. It didn't help that I felt like my bf kind of didn't want to hang with me. Ugh just so down right now. :(
I’m sorry. But really, you shouldn’t even have to know what his ex looks like - let alone be AROUND her.
Fuck her. Avoid shit that she attends.
And your boyfriend should stick up for you and want to hang out with you!
But really, don’t worry about her. Remember they didn’t last for a reason.
Know that you’re better than her insecure/petty behavior - take the high road!
You will be okay sweet heart. xoxo
That's okay I just really need some support :( xx
Of course! I hope I can help you! xoxo
I was only with him 9 months but I felt like we had a good connection, but about 4/5 months in he started to change his behavior, I kept holding on to the hope that go back to the guy I fell in love with. We broke up last Saturday, I'm coping well but I can't help but miss him. I know we were arguing a lot but I just wasn't expecting it, 2 days before the break up he said he didn't want to end it and we could do it together. I'm coping but I can't help but miss him :(
Yea - of course you will miss him!
And I know the feeling, the slow decline: when the pink haze starts fading out and reality comes creeping in.
Break ups are usually not expected. And even if they are predictable, they still hurt.
Keep trying to cope. It sounds like you’re actually doing well. You will find a guy who won’t be so up and down, and who WON’T change his behavior so drastically.
Try to stay positive. And it’s okay to miss him - but don’t settle for him and his destructive ways!
okay so my boyfriend just broke up with me but he lied to me why he did. he said he didn't want a girlfriend but then he asked me back out an hour later and idk what to say because I don't want to be heartbroken again but I love him so much
I’ve been through this so many times - the “on again, off again” dealio.
You have to be careful.
People who “break up” so spontaneously are often unstable in their own head. They don’t know what they want, but they also don’t care what you want.
You probably will get your heart broken again.
I know I have. One boy broke my hearts over eight times in less than two years. I’m to the point where this last time (this week) hasn’t even affected me that much. Like I haven’t even cried - I’m just so done with the bullshit.
I know you say you love him, but does he love you? Does real love really involve such uncertainty? Does it involve lies? Heartbreak? Pain?
Stand up for what you deserve. xoxo
My ex of 7 months and I broke up a month ago. We hooked up recently and now idk what to do. I know he doesn't want to get back together but I'm still hopeful. What do I do we text constantly on top of it
Sleeping with your ex and remaining in contact (generally) is very dangerous territory to be exploring.
Seeing him/speaking to him is only going to hurt you more.
You’re getting more and more hopeful the longer you talk, but meanwhile he is only getting more over the relationship.
I did exactly what you’re doing - I hooked up with my ex about 3 weeks after HE ended it.
We slept together and the next morning I looked at his phone.
He was talking to three other girls. Flirting. Asking them out.
I felt like a fucking fool, dude.
I was hopeful and he had moved on.
Don’t sleep with him and don’t talk to him.
Allow yourself to move on.
The person I love the most hates me. And told me he won't say he loves me back anymore. Because he doesn't feel it anymore. He says I cheated but I didn't cheat on him. Like I've tried talking to him about it but he just refuses to believe me. Now everything is different, it's not the same. All I feel is hate from him and yet all I give him is love. I feel like I'm betrayed but yet I guess he feels betrayed. Do you think he'll get over it or move on? Or should I move on?
He sounds like a total jerk. If you really didn’t cheat on him, then he is being ridiculous.
It sounds like whatever he is upset over or indifferent to may be beyond his hypothetical “cheating” incident that he has created.
He may be just wanting out of the relationship in general, and is doing anything in his mind to “rationalize” ending things with you.
REGARDLESS - he sounds like a dick and a waste of your time.
I would recommend moving on, but I know it’s hard to.
Relationships are supposed to be EASY when it’s the RIGHT MATCH. Isn’t that weird? And yet it’s true…
Why let this guy bring you down when you just want to show love? It doesn’t even make sense… There is a guy out there who would LOVE to have your adoration and care. xo